PREPARING TO BE A HELP MEET BY DEBI PEARL Moral to the story : Learn and live well.  A caution: Stubbornness shuts the door on understanding..  The BIG Question :What type of man best suits me?  The reason a good portion of your thoughts are wrapped up in thinking about certain men and the hopes of marriage is because you were hard-wired with the overwhelming need to be a wife and mother. It is a God-given need that only a man can fulfill. I can't think of one thing I would rather have than a man to really love me. It is supreme. A lovely person is easy to love. That is our goal. God wants us to make you become a lovely help meet. To be a good one takes effort… lots of effort.  In this chapter, Debi Pearl outlined the different types of women we have: Dreamer gal, Servant girl, Go-to Gals. Dreamer girl  A dreamer girl needs to know how to balance work with family or else she will sway from her responsibility to honour her ...

MADE FOR MORE Ruth, the forsaken. Ruth, the rejected. Ruth, the abandoned. Ruth, an object of mockery. Ruth, the poor woman. Ruth the Moabitess. Ruth the justified. Ruth, the one who was in the initial plan of God for redemption right from the beginning. Ruth, whose background didn't lay her back to the ground. Ruth, a woman who does things with a correct and a sincere heart. Ruth, a faithful disciple of Naomi.  Ruth, the new legal wife of Boaz. Ruth the great grandma of King David. Ruth, one of the five women mentioned in the genealogy of Jesus. Ruth the one who obtained mercy. Ruth the highly favoured. Ruth, a woman whose life is worthy of emulation. I could go on and on.  The deed had been done. Naomi lost her two sons and her husband in a strange land. There was nothing left to still be doing in such a land. She had to go back to her native land, Bethlehem: The house of bread. Ruth and Oprah wanted to go with her but with a little persuasion, Oprah went back. It...

HOW I NARROWLY ESCAPED RAPE Okay, before you go on, I am sending a big hug to you if you are a rape victim. I know it's not easy forgetting the ugly incidence but I want to tell you to let go of the past. I am not here to point accusing finger at you for whatever happened in the past. The past is past. Let your new you emerge. Come to love yourself. Forgive yourself. Forgive that person who defiled you. Let God wrap you in His arms.  Majority of rape incidence happens because of the carelessness on the part of the lady. A lady who's frequenting a guy's house in odd hours may not return the same way she came if she's not careful. We can't also overlook the fact that some guys are monsters. They are wolves in sheep's clothing. They may appear harmless but they are like serpents. May God arrests their hearts.   One day Dinah, Leah's daughter, went to visit some of the young women who lived in the area. But when the local prince, Shechem son of ...

THE RISING OF ANNA ©TEMITOPE AKINGBALA        God has done all there is to be done, yes Christ has won the victory for mankind (Colossians 2:15). But there is an outcry, a deep longing in the heart of God. He look down to the earth behold the field are ripe for harvest, there remains a need, the emergence of saviors, ambassadors whose activity will advance his kingdom. Women who are extension of his government.  Who will journey with divine understanding of the  moves of the spirit and enforce his will on earth. Only what they permit will be allowed. (Ezekiel 23:30).            The world await saviors ( intercessors) who will stand in the gap between ramah and bethel. Women who will rebuild the ruin places, restore the path and build breaches. Pathfinder, helping the blind to see and the lamb to walk. Women like Anna, seperated unto God. who will proclaim the good news of our lord and stand as intercessor between...

THE RISING OF DEBORAH © OYINDAMOLA OLANIYAN  “In the days of Shamgar, son of Anath, in the days of Jael, the highways were deserted, and the travelers walked along the byways. Village life ceased, it ceased in Isreal, until I Deborah, arose, arose as a mother in Isreal”  Judges 5:6-7 Oh ye woman hear me! The Lord created them male and female, blessed them and said “Be fruitful and multiply: fill the earth and subdue it (with righteousness): Have dominion over every living things that move on the earth. To proper is a human right legislated by God in the beginning, and it has nothing to do with being either female or male. Nevertheless, many women have negative feeling about prosperity of the soul and the cause is not farfetched from their  definition of prosperity and success and how to maintain their feminine role in midst of it. What is prosperity? Prosperity is experiencing balance in life: it is attaining what we want in alignment with what ...

THE RISING OF ESTHER ©ADEDIRE TOSIN-ADEGOKE  Labels... *Humble enough to be made. *Exploits immeasurable. *Your rising will liberate many destinies. *************************** As I was preparing for this ministration, my eyes were opened, and in a Jiffy I saw a chain on a straight line, knotted together at some strategic points, kept in the space by an invisible force. I pondered on this and I got the revelation of sisters arranged on a straight line, with the right hand of each on the shoulder of the next.  A formidable force built by women having the same goal, that the glory of God would cover the earth as the waters cover the seas. There was a knowing in my spirit that the space between a sister and the next is called TIME. Hmmm, time will tell. I have a message for a sister tonight, one word that I speak to one, I speak to all. There is something about you, something crying from within you that your generation will not forget in a h...

THE RISING OF MARY Have you met a woman who is beautiful yet simple? A woman who is eager for change and ready for it. A woman who is yielded to be a vessel of change. Let me introduce to you, Mary, the mother of Jesus our Saviour. Having witnessed molestations and enslavery towards her town, she has for long hungered for change. There she was, under a tree, quiet, yielded and sensitive. She was visited by the Angel of the Lord who brought the great news to her- You are an agent of change.  The Lord needs your womb to carry the seed that will effect a lasting change. After much questioning, she made a statement of surrender- "Be it unto me according to your word". (Luke 1:26-38) I know you are aware of the chaos and the darkeness in our world today and you clamour for change, but are you ready to be part of  the change? Yes, you pray and ask for revival but are you yielded to the Lord?  Hope your reason for marriage is not just for your selfish ...

THE EMERGENCE OF SAVIOURS She didn't allow her background to lay her back to the ground. She was an orphan who was single-handedly raised by Mordecai. She could have gone haywire but she dared to be different. She didn't become wayward because she was raised by a male but rather, she received training.  When the opportunity came for her to contest for the position of a queen, she was submissive even to the maids assigned to  her. She is that being who is  always ready to learn. She wore humility like clothing.  So, she obtained favour from the maids. And when it was her turn to actually appear before the king, she obtained favour, she was chosen over others and she was crowned the queen.  HER NAME IS ESTHER.  When she got to the palace, she still had the best interest of her people at heart. She wasn't selfish like some of us today who once we taste power, we look down on everyone else. We don't care if others perish so far we are safe. T...

MAKING A MESSAGE OUT OF A MESSED UP LIFE WRITTEN BY IFEOLUWA AKINBO Have you heard of the man who persecuted the church so much during his youthful days? Oh, if there was a word after persecution, we will just attribute it to what he did.  He killed and destroyed the people and things of God at will and no one dared question or fight him. He even had followers. He was feared home and abroad. What a trouble he must have been.  But guess what? This guy became a preacher just over night! If he was just a preacher, maybe we wouldn't have made so much noise about it. But this man in question  wrote about 13 books of the New Testament we all read today.  He is the popular APOSTLE PAUL. Can we talk about Christianity and not mention his name? No way!  Apostle Paul whose name used to be Saul became the instrument in the hand of God to take the gospel to the gentiles and set some foundational principles for Christianity. Who says you ...

HOPE AGAIN BY ADEDIRE TOSIN-ADEGOKE =========== Labels... *Radiance & Encompassing peace *Determination & Consistency *Supernatural Energy + Fireised life *Unashamed ******************************* I come to you in the name of the Lord oh thou woman and man of valour (for this is the you in you). I bring a message from on high, a light that swallows darkness and breaks to pieces the bar that holds down. I see light enter into you. Receive it now. Every man has a past, even Jesus had some couple of experiences before He sat at the right hand of God (His death, His ressurrection and then His glorification). We have a High Priest who has been through our infirmities and because He is glorified, He is calling you to come out of every awkward past experience and enter into your glory. Jesus is our only hope, you have no hope of tomorrow outside of Christ, infact, you are doomed and damned without Him. Jesus's love beckons on you to open up y...

HAUNTED BY THE PAST WRITTEN BY OLUWAFISAYOMI AKINBOYO Oluwafisayomi Adenike is a typical example of one who was broken, shattered and now restored. You wanna know how? leggo Eight (8) years ago, I lost the track, I started getting myself engaged myself in things I shouldn’t be found doingI went astray, my life was a total mess, I became a nonentity, I made no sense to people around me, I rarely had moments of Joy, I was a product of the devil’s bondage, God wasn’t far from me but I was far from him. My life was broken into pieces, I was scared because it appeared useless and of less or no importance. A life that was a sweet smelling savor, a life that was someone else’s desire suddenly became a life that do not count. Horrible were the things I did back then, things that were worthy of eternal damnation, things that do not potray the Light I claimed to carry, things that weighed me down, It left no table untouched and It affected all areas of my life. Spiritually I was d...

QUEENS DON'T DO IT  BY AKINWALERE IYANU First of all a Queen is the Wife of a King and every King of a domain has Customs and Values. We have two different categories of race of women on the earth, those after the first Adam and those after the Last Adam(Christ Jesus). But here is where the distinction lies, everyone(lady) who had come to believe in the redemptive work of Jesus has been made Queens and king unto our Lord Jesus. Having Understood this, every Queen must live by the Values that Upholds the Kingdom she represents. In addition, if being an earthly Queen is dignifying, how much more being a Queen in God's Kingdom? We are in the world but not of the world. The world has its own system, philosophies and ideas, but as queens living in the world you are not to Conform to the World. So as Queens, we have our Values which are not compromisable at all.  For example, there are some ceremonies we attend, and  some tables are tagged with 'reserved'...

BROKEN,  SHATTERED AND RESTORED BY TRAILBLAZER AREGBESOLA BUNMI It all started with hanging out late in the night with him.  She wanted to dance to the world's tune without being stigmatized.  She wanted to explore her world unscathed.  She wanted to feel among not knowing she was a daughter of destiny.  Little did she know that many are they that are wolves in sheep's clothing.  She met this handsome guy who didn't know the worth of a Ruby. She had contact with the one who do not know how to handle queens.   He took her and had his way through her.  she thought she could live as every other lady but ALAS, SHE WAS BROKEN. This opened her up to several attacks.  She became vulnerable to the wicked one.  She was addicted to pornography and masturbation.  She no longer had control over herself but rather her flesh started controlling her.  She was wounded severally.  She was...