PREPARING TO BE A HELP MEET BY DEBI PEARL  KNOWLEDGE (CHAPTER 7) Moral to the story: Knowledge can save your life.  A caution: Shrugging off learning can be devastating.  Marrried life is not all romance and passion-maybe five percent. The rest of your time is devoted to the routine of living. There will be unexpected trials and burdens that will catch you and your sweetie totally by surprise. Whether your family, not to mention your passion, survives life's curveballs depends on knowledge… yours.  Debi pearl  A man comes into marriage believing that his wife will be the fulfillment of all his longings, all his dreams, and all his expectations. After only a few weeks he looks into her eyes and finds only dissatisfaction. A wife blames her husband for being a loser sitting in front of the TV or spending his life on some other useless time waster. The husband is frustrated that something is not the way it should be.  Debi pearl...

PREPARING TO BE A HELP MEET BY DEBI PEARL Moral to the story : Learn and live well.  A caution: Stubbornness shuts the door on understanding..  The BIG Question :What type of man best suits me?  The reason a good portion of your thoughts are wrapped up in thinking about certain men and the hopes of marriage is because you were hard-wired with the overwhelming need to be a wife and mother. It is a God-given need that only a man can fulfill. I can't think of one thing I would rather have than a man to really love me. It is supreme. A lovely person is easy to love. That is our goal. God wants us to make you become a lovely help meet. To be a good one takes effort… lots of effort.  In this chapter, Debi Pearl outlined the different types of women we have: Dreamer gal, Servant girl, Go-to Gals. Dreamer girl  A dreamer girl needs to know how to balance work with family or else she will sway from her responsibility to honour her ...

Michael and Debi Pearl PREPARING TO BE A HELP MEET BY DEBI PEARL Moral to the story: The wife to a King must learn to serve him with Honour A caution: Don't be offended at his lack of serving or helping you in the mundane things of life. Kingly men show little tolerance for those around them who are dragging their feet, making excuses, or whining about their lot in life. As a rule, Kingly men tend to end up in a place of authority over other people. If you should marry a King, you must be prepared to give him honour and reverence on a daily basis if you want him to be a benevolent, honest, strong and fulfilled man of God. Every king wants a Queen. What to expect if you marry a King A kingly man expects his wife to wait on him hand and foot. If you are blessed to win the favour of a strong, forceful, bossy man, then it is very important for you to learn how to serve with joy. Kingly men are not as intimate or vulnerable as other me...

PREPARING TO BE A HELP MEET BY DEBI PEARL PREPARING TO BE A HELP MEET  PRIEST-NATURED MAN (CHAPTER  4) MORAL TO THE STORY : The wife of a priest-type needs to be as active helping others as her husband is. This will bring him honour. A CAUTION : A priest's desire is to please. Your impatience or unthankfulness can destroy his vision for serving others, as well as destroy your health. "You may marry a man that is priestly in nature. He will be the most steady and easygoing of the three types, not given to extremes. The steady nature of the priest is reflected in his tendency not to make snap decisions or spend his last dime on a new idea;  nor does he try to tell other people what to do. This man is content with the wife of his youth." Debi Pearl If you marry a priest-natured man,  he won't force you to obey his will, he won't mount pressure on you in achieving some feats. He will love you to go at your pace. You will never be pres...

Give your man all the support he needs.  PREPARING TO BE A HELP MEET BY DEBI PEARL THE PROPHET TYPE OF MAN (CHAPTER 3) Moral to the story: Be flexible for your man.  A caution : Your most important job as a prophet's wife is keeping chaste and common sense attitude and conversation (not bad-mouthing folks).  Without it, your marriage will be miserable.  In this chapter, Debi began to talk about the types of men we have. She divided them into the Prophet type, the Priest and the King. The first one we are considering today is the Prophet.  "As a man moves into his late twenties and early thirties his image will become much more pronounced." Debi Pearl  Your ability to know who your man is, what he wants and how to serve him will bring fulfillment and bliss to you.  Give your man all the supports he needs ranging from emotional to spiritual support.  "The prophet or visionary  type of  man are maj...

PREPARING TO BE A HELP MEET BY DEBI PEARL COURTSHIP TO WHOM? (CHAPTER 2) Moral to the story :God often leads us down His path through the counsel of those who are wiser. A caution :Stubbornness can wreck your life. High-mindedness can leave you a high and dry old maid.   This chapter centers on a lady by name,  Lydia. She was beginning to wonder if she would ever get married at age 23. A day came in which her dad stopped by in her room, to tell her of a man seeking permission to court her.  She was so eager to know who the man was. She was surprised when her dad mentioned a guy who was totally a stranger to her. Of course, she had seen him in different groups prior to that time, but they have never said a word to each other.  It took an hour of persuasion from her dad before she actually agreed to give it a chance by just knowing him.  "Nervous? Are you kidding me? I was a MESS. I mean can you imagine it happening to you? ...

PREPARING TO BE A HELP MEET BY DEBI PEARL  THE KID'S LOVE STORY (CHAPTER 1) Moral to the story: God wants, no, He needs us to pray.  CAUTION: Don't pray amiss.  The kid's love story is that of the author herself; Debi Pearl. She had just turned 13 when she first saw her man in a program  and immediately she knew he was the right one for her. Of course the man didn't notice her not until many years later. Why would God bypass a guy of at least 21 years old, and come to a kid of 13 years old telling her he was the one she was going to marry. Sounds weird right?  God does not do anything without a reason. He is the God who knows the end, right from the beginning.  When the young Debi got home, she told her mum, and her mum began to follow her up to always pray for the man of God. The young Debi took it upon herself, praying for the man of God. She wasn't praying to be his wife, neither was she praying for him to notice her. She...