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THE KING-NATURED MAN CHAPTER 5




Michael and Debi Pearl

PREPARING TO BE A HELP MEET BY DEBI PEARL


Moral to the story: The wife to a King must learn to serve him with Honour
A caution: Don't be offended at his lack of serving or helping you in the mundane things of life.



Kingly men show little tolerance for those around them who are dragging their feet, making excuses, or whining about their lot in life. As a rule, Kingly men tend to end up in a place of authority over other people.



If you should marry a King, you must be prepared to give him honour and reverence on a daily basis if you want him to be a benevolent, honest, strong and fulfilled man of God. Every king wants a Queen.



What to expect if you marry a King
  • A kingly man expects his wife to wait on him hand and foot.
  • If you are blessed to win the favour of a strong, forceful, bossy man, then it is very important for you to learn how to serve with joy.
  • Kingly men are not as intimate or vulnerable as other men in sharing their personal feelings with their wives. Tbey seem to be sufficient unto themselves.
  • She's on call every minute. Her man wants to know where she is, what she is doing, and why she is doing it. He corrects her without thought. For better or for worse, it is his nature to control.
  • If you marry a kingly man, you will wear a hevier yoke than most women, but it can be a very rewarding yoke. You will always know exactly what is required of you. For a wise woman, this can bring a calm sense of safety and rest.
  • If marry a kingly man, he will need you to stand by him. He will grow much faster as a man and a leader if you match forward as a couple united in mind and heart. If you pray forhim, support him, encourage him, and act as his faithful right-hand man, he will be more capable to serve a greater number in wisdom and humility. 

You could be a blessing or a curse to many people by how you relate to your command man. 
Debi Pearl

A king wants a Queen, which is why a man in command wants a faithful wife to share his fame and glory. Without a woman's admiration, his victories are muted. 

 If a wife learns early to enjoy the benefits of taking the second seat, and if she does not take offense to his headstrong aggressiveness, she will be the one sitting at his right side being adopted, because this kind of man will totally adore his woman and exalt her. She will be his closest and sometimes his only confidante.
Over the years, the kingly man can become more yielding and gentle. His wife will discover the secret portals to his heart.


In most marriages, the strife is not because the man is cruel or evil; it is because he expects obedience, honour and reverence, and is not getting it. Thus, he reacts badly. 
Debi Pearl

Lessons Learnt:
  1. Submission is key in winning the heart of your man as a kingly wife.
  2. You need a lot of patience to forbear a kingly man.
  3. When you understand the key to your husband's heart, you will win his attention and love.
  4. If you marry a king, know that he is not trying to Lord over you... he is just in the image of a supreme leader.

Prayers: 
Ask God to help you so you may be the perfect woman for your husband.
Ask for wisdom so that you may know how to serve him in honour.

Thank you for following through.

What other lesson did you learn?

 Read chapter 4 from here:
PRIESTLY NATURED MAN (CHAPTER 4)

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