Skip to main content

ISSUES WITH RUNNING MOUTH? QUICK LOOK AT THE WAYS OUT BY TRAILBLAZER AREGBESOLA BUNMI


ISSUES WITH RUNNING MOUTH? QUICK LOOK AT THE WAYS OUT 
BY TRAILBLAZER AREGBESOLA BUNMI


When you see a man who talks too much, he is a man who is not given to prayer. How tongue will always boast of many things. No matter how he tries, his tongue will always betray him. 

I said, I will take heed to my ways, that I sin not with my tongue: I will keep my mouth with a bridle, while the wicked is before me. Psalms  39:1

Do you have issues with running mouth? I have got a lasting solution for you. 

Do you have issues with minding your business? You always want to pry into the affairs of others even when you are not needed? I have a way out for you. You and I know you can't continue like this. Read on if this matters a lot to you. 

Pray
I say pray and you will learn how to mind your own business. 
Men who prays more are men of few words because their strength is expended in the place of prayer. How will a man who has prayed 6 hours at a stretch still have the energy to gossip about someone else? The Holy Spirit will not even allow you do that because you are alive to His instructions. 


Waste not your strength on talks that add nothing to you. Invest your strength in the prayers and you will be surprised at the result that follows suit. 

A woman of God whom I respect so much once told me the secret of praying in the night. She said I shouldn't waste my strength on irrelevant talks during the day, doing busy bodies and all of that because after all those moments, when's time to pray, I  will be overly  tired because I have succeeded in  expending my energy on trivial matters. 

Instead of engaging in unprofitable discussions , she told me to sleep well in the afternoon when everyone is busy gossiping so that I won't have time to join them, and in the night in return, I will be able to pray. 

That's the secret to prayer. 
Pray, I say pray. A man who has burdens in his heart will never have time to be doing busy bodies. He will know he has to pray. 
Pray, I say pray 
And you will learn how to mind your business. 

So, when you wake up and you discover how you care less about minding your business, how talkative you are and how you are busy looking for whom to gossip with, just enter your closet and pray. You will be thankful you did that later because you will be saved from many troubles. 1 Thessalonians 4:11

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

HOW I NARROWLY ESCAPED RAPE

HOW I NARROWLY ESCAPED RAPE Okay, before you go on, I am sending a big hug to you if you are a rape victim. I know it's not easy forgetting the ugly incidence but I want to tell you to let go of the past. I am not here to point accusing finger at you for whatever happened in the past. The past is past. Let your new you emerge. Come to love yourself. Forgive yourself. Forgive that person who defiled you. Let God wrap you in His arms.  Majority of rape incidence happens because of the carelessness on the part of the lady. A lady who's frequenting a guy's house in odd hours may not return the same way she came if she's not careful. We can't also overlook the fact that some guys are monsters. They are wolves in sheep's clothing. They may appear harmless but they are like serpents. May God arrests their hearts.   One day Dinah, Leah's daughter, went to visit some of the young women who lived in the area. But when the local prince, Shechem son of ...

NOT WITHOUT A FATHER

NOT WITHOUT A FATHER For those who are so close to me, they will know I rarely mention my Dad. He's alive and healthy.  I grew up not knowing my Dad. I grew up not knowing what fatherly love meant. My Dad is very much alive but we are far from each other. I was around 11 years or so before he came looking for me. First of all, I am grateful to God for giving me my mum. She went through a lot raising me.  So, while I was growing up, I envied those who talked about their dad so much. I wish I could be like them. I wish I could have someone who would be able to show me love. I didn't know fatherly love not until when I met my Spiritual father in Ibadan in 2010. He received me with open arms.  For several years, I lived with hurt and hatred in my heart. I cried bitterly most times when I reminisce about so many things.  A day came when I heard God said to me"For this reason were you separated from your mother's womb, you are not accidental...

SEX DOES NOT HAPPEN BY ACCIDENT

SEX DOES NOT HAPPEN BY ACCIDENT  A whole lot of things must have been conceived  in your mind before indulging in sex.  That act you carried out was as a result of a lot of mental works that you have carried out in your mind before you finally carried it out.  Here are things to know before sex can actually happen between two people outside wedlock, rape situations excluded please.  1. Men generally, are moved by what they see. So, when a guy visits you and the next thing you do is  to expose your cleavages, wear bum shorts, with just the two of you behind closed doors, honestly speaking, that guy would have a whole lot of dirty things going on in his mind. You are inviting him either consciously or unconsciously.  2. Women generally, are turned on by sweet words spoken to them by men. Yes, we love it when we hear how amazing we are, how pretty we are. When a particular guy showers you with incessant praises, you tend to fall...