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COVETOUSNESS IS NOT ALLOWED BY TRAILBLAZER AREGBESOLA BUNMI






COVETOUSNESS IS NOT ALLOWED BY TRAILBLAZER AREGBESOLA BUNMI 

It is simply flirting when you begin to imagine someone to be your partner when you already have yours. Contentment is a virtue everyone who goes into relationships must possess otherwise, such will be playing in and out of every relationship. 

As you move on in life, it is not unlikely that you see some characteristics in a person which is lacking in your partner. If you are the type who is not contented, you begin to secretly admire the person. If care is not taken, you will begin to flirt with the person. When those advances are not checked, lust sets in and when lust finds its way, the devil is already making a headway. 

Without controversy, your partner has some enviable characters which others are praying for. Discover that first and be thankful for that. 

You are meant to complement each other. Comparison is dangerous in relationships. You've got to be contented. 

That person you are eyeing also has weaknesses. He is not a superman neither is she a superwoman. 

Also, let each [of both] try and work on themselves. There is nothing like "I can't change for this was the way I was brought up." Of course, you can. 

With God and your dogged determination, you can become a better person. Also, pray for your partner at every available opportunity.

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