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AT THE EXPENSE OF ANOTHER MAN'S HAPPINESS? BY TRAILBLAZER AREGBESOLA BUNMI


AT THE EXPENSE OF ANOTHER MAN'S HAPPINESS? BY TRAILBLAZER AREGBESOLA BUNMI

I stumbled into one film somewhere. A cleric told a lady not to deny any marriage proposal after the fasting and prayer he asked her to observe. Lo and behold, she was invited to a wedding and guess what, the groom of the day made a proposal to her and she accepted without delay. 

I said it to myself, my God will never be involved in this. He is never the God of confusion. My God will never send someone to a home in order to go and cause chaos there. 

To them, once the lady in question is able to get an husband, that's the end of her problem. They were not even considerate about the other lady. 

Moreover, that's not acceptable in the sight of God. 

Friend, what is that thing you are planning to embark on at the expense of another man's happiness? 

Remember that God will never, I repeat, He will never send you to a home in order for you to destroy it and build yours. 

In everything you do, put others above you. Also remember to put yourself in their shoes and carefully consider how you will feel if you were the one in question. 

Don't because of frustration, engage in evil. It is better to wait on God, though He may tarry but the way of the Lord is peace. 

Also, whatsoever any man of God tells you, and you see that it is not healthy for your profession as a Christian, you even discovered on top of it that God is not happy with it, please discard it without delay. Don't obey your pastor at the expense of your faith.

The bible is our guide. 

Above all, put God into consideration in whatsoever you are doing. Don't put God out of any area of your life.

And as ye would that men should do to you, do ye also to them likewise. Luke 6:31

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