LET THEM KNOW YOUR STAND BY TRAILBLAZER AREGBESOLA BUNMI

LET THEM KNOW YOUR STAND BY TRAILBLAZER AREGBESOLA BUNMI

While I was publicizing my new book (Maximizing your single days and beyond) on the social media, I said I was single. Though I was seeing it from a different point of view due to the information I wanted to pass across about the book, some misquoted me.

One of the people I respected so much said, it was better I add my engagement status to save myself from unnecessary distraction.

I saw messages popping in. Messages like, "hello babe", someone even said, "don't worry, even if you have nobody, I will take you in." I was like "I don enter am. " Thank God for wisdom in attending to the issue. Later added my engagement status to the article.

Majority of those who are shy in declaring their engagement status when asked is because they are still looking for a better option. They are not satisfied with what they have. They are in search of someone better.

If what brought you to the relationship at first was lust, you will surely find your way out soon because you will always find other people better than your partner as you journey in life.

It is crucial we are contented with what we have. Contentment is a virtue. Work on your spouse to be and you will be happy at the improvement.

Conviction about the person will keep you going along the journey even when there are distractions.

Consider yourself blessed and favoured of God having that man or woman.

Friend, please tell me how you would be contented with just one person if Jesus is lacking in your life?

N.B.

I am Oluwabunmi Aregbesola, I am single though engaged. This singleness stage of my life must be spent wisely.

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