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FELLOW LADY, SHALL WE CONTINUE LIKE THIS?PART 2 BY OLUWABUNMI AREGBESOLA



FELLOW LADY, SHALL WE CONTINUE LIKE THIS PART 2? BY OLUWABUNMI AREGBESOLA


Dear, the only thing you know about social media is posting pictures and getting thousands of likes. You are wowed when they remind you of your beauty. You don't know that there are other stuffs you can lay hold on that may be beneficial to you. You can't download books that can help you grow spiritually since you complain you could not afford hard copy?


Spiritual songs and videos are available for free download but your data is meant for downloading irrelevant things. The sites you feed your eyes with are shameful that you can't encourage younger ones to also visit.


The only books you have in your library is on how to attract Mr right, ten ways to love him, one hundred ways to be a good wife, the list is endless. We can never see books like: purpose driven life, growing up spiritually, daughter of destiny and so on.


When I was a teenager, anytime I hear guys calling me while trekking, my heart skips a beat for joy that I was noticed. I adjust my dress and walk proudly. Thank God for His encounter!


When will you stop seeking for attentions lady? You are a wonder to behold, why do you want to become a cheap commodity? Remember you will always attract your kind.


Young lady, why are you here at this time?
Are you here to just occupy space?


This thing that is doing you geezgeez, if you don't get on the right track, you will be disappointed at last. You will even question yourself why you lived carelessly without purpose.


Please ask Miss World of 1940 if she is still relevant in our generation? Don't forget to ask grandma if she ever passed through your stage?


Shall we continue like this....?
To be continued...
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