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FELLOW LADY, SHALL WE CONTINUE LIKE THIS PART 1? BY OLUWABUNMI AREGBESOLA


FELLOW LADY, SHALL WE CONTINUE LIKE THIS PART 1? BY OLUWABUNMI AREGBESOLA

Fellow lady, if the only thing we think about is how our wedding will look like, how our spouses will caress us, how our children will be calling us mummy, we are totally undone for.

It is a great disaster if all you wake up to plan for is your wedding that will hold 2020. You already downloaded all the materials you will be needing, your ladies in wardrobe are all set but you are not planning for marriage. Necessary materials that can groom you up for marriage, you don't get to see them, all what you are concerned is wedding that will come and go.

Please help me ask those who spent millions of naira to hold a classic wedding but were not adequately groomed for marriage are today? Help me ask from them if they are actually enjoying or enduring their marriage.

Any marriage not founded on the rock which is Jesus will end in mirage.

Fellow lady, thank God you can cook but where are your virtues?

Fellow lady, I must commend your beauty but where is your brain? You are so outdated in knowledge.

When he talks about Bible, all what your brain can capture at the moment is the bedroom things. Nothing excites you except trivial things.

Shall we continue like this.... To be continued...

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