THAT FELLOW WHO DESERVES YOUR ATTENTION IN 2018 BY OLUWABUNMI AREGBESOLA

THAT FELLOW WHO DESERVES YOUR ATTENTION IN 2018 BY OLUWABUNMI AREGBESOLA

Count him worthy of your attention that fellow who wants nothing but the best for you in life. Such person deserves to be acquainted with. Their goal in your life is not to sap you of vitality. When they see you missing it, they are not pleased.

They can go to any length in lending helping hands. They can take their time even in praying for you. They are not among those who pull you down at your back. Such people are not involved in amputating your dreams and visions. Mark them, for they are men to be reckoned with.

There was a woman sometime ago whom an older woman played the role of a mother to. The older woman helped to take care of the younger woman's babies. The younger woman didn't have much even to take care of her babies. This older woman could go to any length in getting money for her so she could get foodstuffs and live.

Don't be drawn away by that thinking she is kind. Anytime the younger woman prayed that God would lift her up so she could take care of the older woman and repay her kindness. The woman would laugh her to scorn and tell her how impossible it is for her to rise up above that level. It is impossible to her because she had written her off.

We shouldn't share our lives with such person. Such fellow would always pity you, and make you think you should live a pitied life. Run for your life my dear because you will never rise to the top with them. They will always be there to encourage you not to dare new things. With them by your side, failure is guaranteed.

In this year 2018, I pray that the Lord will connect you to great men of purpose and vision. May you be connected to those who rejoice in your progress. May you be connected to those who will never watch you miss it and laugh you to scorn. May you be disconnected from every enemy of progress.

I know you need friends but the greatest friend you can have is JESUS. Be connected to Him and He will grant you direction in choosing your friends.

Beloved, I pray that you may prosper in all things and be in health, just as your soul prospers. 3 John:2

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