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NO MAN CAN MAKE YOU FEEL MISERABLE WITHOUT YOUR PERMISSION BY OLUWABUNMI AREGBESOLA


NO MAN CAN MAKE YOU FEEL MISERABLE WITHOUT YOUR PERMISSION BY OLUWABUNMI AREGBESOLA

You have chosen to believe the negative words others speak to you because you are ignorant of who you are. No man can make you feel miserable except you have first believed it yourself. 

When you lack substance within, that is when you begin to seek approval from without. A man who has the life of God believes what God's word says about Him. He is less concerned about what other say about Him. 

Don't believe what men say about you if it is not true of what God says about you. 

Negative words do not count again because you are a new creature. You can't be hindered by negative words spoken to you if you believe what God's word says. 

When a man refuses to believe God and His eternal word, he will surely believe men. If you refuse to see yourself in the light of the word of God, you must see yourself in the light of what men say to you. 

You have no choice than to believe them since you lack the knowledge of your true identity. 

Don't forget that a man who sees himself as others see him without appropriate check with the word will remain in that position. He would be tied down with no progress in view. 

See yourself in the mirror of the word and know that what God says about you is true. You are wonderfully and fearfully made by God. You are created in the likeness of God. You are not miserable and no man can make you feel miserable.

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