DEAR SISTER, WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM HIM? BY OLUWABUNMI AREGBESOLA

DEAR SISTER, WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM HIM? BY OLUWABUNMI AREGBESOLA

Why have you decided to yield yourself as an object of distraction to this brother?

Why are you bent on destroying him when you know he has a future?

You keep giving him serious attention just because you know he can share the word.

You have decided to use your own money to cook delicacies for him in the bid to attract him.

You keep visiting him and you don't hesitate to do his house chores for him.

You have never given him any chance to see clearly.

Why are you after him? Your relationship with him has comma.

Please allow him to concentrate.

Don't become the voice he hears daily instead of God's voice.

Don't become the one he dreams about instead of having encounters in the dream.

Don't start the fire of lust in him.

Lust will kill his dreams and reduce him to a an ordinary man.

He is equally important in the agenda of God.

He still has this flesh. Stop distracting him, ma.

Jesus had some women who followed him in his earthly ministry but they never sought his downfall.

Guard your heart with all diligence and never allow any evil thoughts to penetrate.

Don't give the devil chance in your life.

Don't be an instrument of fall to the brother.

I guess you should have females as friends, too.

You can surprise them with your cooking skills.

You can dare many things together.

Don't let the brother see fake vision to you.

Don't fall cheaply to the devil's trap.

You are far above rubies.

You are precious.

Your kind is rare.

You are priceless.

You are beautiful and to crown it all, you have God.

Why do you now have to force yourself on him?

Why do you want to help him see you clearly?

Stop doing notice-me and concentrate on God, too.

Your own brother will find you, don't look for him.

He is also your brother.

Please help him, too.

Don't be a stumbling block to his growth.

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