I WONT WASTE MY TIME TRYING TO BE LIKE YOU BECAUSE I AM UNIQUE IN MY OWN WAY BY OLUWABUNMI AREGBESOLA

I WONT WASTE MY TIME TRYING TO BE LIKE YOU BECAUSE I AM UNIQUE IN MY OWN WAY BY OLUWABUNMI AREGBESOLA

So many times, I had wished to be just like someone else in some areas. I would be like, "how I wish I had this attribute," "how I wish I was made this way." But I have come to realize that I am unique in my own way. No other person looks exactly like me in the whole universe. God knows why He mad me this way. I show forth His glory. I am a rare species that God took time to form.

Why do you have to compare yourself with someone else, when someone else wants to be like you too?

You are missing a lot by wishing you were someone else.

God has a reason for making you this way.

A minister told us how a boy approached him one day and asked why he was small in stature. I really love his response to the boy. "I do not need a big stature to fulfill God's purpose in my life."

Do you know if that thing you disliked about yourself is what will endear you to your generation?

God knew what He was doing when He made you this way.

Are you tall? Please don't desire to be short.

Are you fat? Please don't desire to be thin.

Wishing to be someone else and hating your personality is bad.

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