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FOR THIS REASON WAS I SEPARATED FROM MY MOTHER'S WOMB; I AM NOT ACCIDENTAL BY OLUWABUNMI AREGBESOLA


FOR THIS REASON WAS I SEPARATED FROM MY MOTHER'S WOMB; I AM NOT ACCIDENTAL 

BY OLUWABUNMI AREGBESOLA


So many people have continued to blame their failure on their parents. They have been consistent in making them realize how miserable they have made their lives to be. They continue to blame their parents maybe because they were a product of illicit affairs or they were born into a poor family. 
Listen sir, you are not accidental! 

You are the sole reason why you have encountered failure. You have chosen to live a pitiful life based on the circumstances surrounding your birth. 
Though your parents never planned to have you, you are not accidental! 
Stop living a miserable life. 

Though you were conceived by a known prostitute and an irresponsible father, you are not accidental! 
Though you didn't choose your parent or background, you are the reason for all your misfortunes. Take it, or leave it! 

Though you were not born with a silver spoon, you can create your golden spoon by taking responsibility.
Your parents have done their part, how many people will you continue to tell how miserable they are? 
Sister, please stop that. 
You are not accidental! 

So many people have wished someone else's parent were their parents. They have continued to say if they were conceived by such parent, they would have been fulfilled in life. 
Forget it, nothing would have change about you if this had happened. You would have remained a failure because success is not measured by background. 

It is your personal choice to remain a nonentity. Stop blaming your parents. 
Though they were partly involved, but you take the active lead. 

You can create your desired future by your positive words. 
Stop relegating yourself. 
You were not born by accident. 
Even though your parents made mistakes, you are not a mistake. 
Your birth was carefully planned by God. 
Before you were formed in your mother's womb, he knew you and called you by name. 

For this reason was I separated from my mother's womb, I am not accidental! 
I am a product of grace. Grace found me. 
I am a mighty vessel in the hands of God. 
I was not made to be relegated, I was created to dominate. 
I am the light of the world. 
I was formed to show forth his praises. 
I was created to pull down, to build up kingdoms. 
I will learn how to live responsibly. 
I won't blame anyone for my failure. 
This day I arise! 
I am the salt of the earth. 
Please stop pitying me, I know who I am. 
I have been separated from my mother's womb, I am not ordinary.

Blessed and remain blessed

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