HOW I NARROWLY ESCAPED RAPE Okay, before you go on, I am sending a big hug to you if you are a rape victim. I know it's not easy forgetting the ugly incidence but I want to tell you to let go of the past. I am not here to point accusing finger at you for whatever happened in the past. The past is past. Let your new you emerge. Come to love yourself. Forgive yourself. Forgive that person who defiled you. Let God wrap you in His arms.  Majority of rape incidence happens because of the carelessness on the part of the lady. A lady who's frequenting a guy's house in odd hours may not return the same way she came if she's not careful. We can't also overlook the fact that some guys are monsters. They are wolves in sheep's clothing. They may appear harmless but they are like serpents. May God arrests their hearts.   One day Dinah, Leah's daughter, went to visit some of the young women who lived in the area. But when the local prince, Shechem son of ...

YES! WE NEED ENCOURAGEMENT TOO Whenever myself and one of my mentors are engaged in a discussion, he is not afraid of telling me where he has failed. I know it takes humility for someone whom you are looking up to open up to you points he once failed. When you see someone who's not afraid to tell you they were not able to meet up to God's  expectations at one time when you are actually looking up to them, please celebrate them. It takes a man who has allowed God to work on him to do that. That is by the way. When we ask some people how they were able to arrive at a point, they say different things like "It's God, I am suprised too. I was able to attaim this height because I fasted for 3 good years." They have never shared their dark times before. They make their proteges look at them like they don't even "fart" at all. Yes, there are days I wake up and I don't feel like praying. There have been days I didn't feel like...